Hee! I like this metaphor! And I very much like that you're liking the R/S. Similarly, on my tapestry, where there was once a blackened burn (because I do things Mama Black style, apparently), it now says 'Tonks/Remus' in tiny, tiny little letters. But the thing is, it's there. Fanfic is most definitely helping me sort out my issues, as have you. :D